How to be a confident woman

        Advice we all have had those as a kid or as a grown up from our families, teachers,  even strangers. So how does an advice affect our confidence as women? Asking for advice is a noble thing to do. It is certain that you can't always make the right choices in life or have enough perspective of  different things. It is a very good thing to take a look at different approach in things from people who we ask advice from. It doesn't always mean we will exactly do as told though sometimes we do. Depends on the advice given and the approach we decide to take. It helps us to grow to be good at making different choices and to not be an overly-confident person. Even though advice can be a good thing, it strongly depends on how often we ask and how dependent we are on them. You see, asking an advice every time for everything is not necessarily a good thing. It shows that we are insecure in making our own choices and are not confident enough in what will happen....

Feminism : the advocacy of women's rights on the basis of the equality of the sexes. I am quite certain many of you have heard this term before and I am not going to talk about that now. I believe that every female should be a feminist, I believe it must be  practiced as an ordinary thing.  Feminism  has a more deeper meaning than what I can write here.  Feminism mostly talks about the GENDER EQUALITY when we never question how to treat each other as women. In this century women are more hostile to each other than men are to us. So, what is the purpose of saying we deserve better and talking about girl power when we don't even bother ourselves to build each other up or even worst tearing each other down. Jealousy, competition, insincerity the list goes on... I always have had a hard time understanding this, why are we mostly negative to one another and how unhealthy it is for the mind peace. I used to think that women maybe were created this way, but no! The...

         Today I was having a conversation with a friend. We were talking about something she wanted to do that is against her religion, culture and morals(don't worry it doesn't involve murdering someone). It was something she was curious about and just wanted to experience, of course I'm not going to mention what it is since it will be against her will but we talked about it and I told her a thing or two  I learnt about curiosity through out my experiences. Us people are curious about almost all things. That is one of the things that make us different from animals, we get curious and we ask questions, then want to experience then it just keeps going. Curiosity can be parted into 2. The good and the bad curiosity . The good curiosity is the kind of curiosity that made Isaac Newton wonder what made an apple fall off a tree, later on to study it and discover GRAVITY.  It is those kind of curiosities that can actually bring change to our lives. And t...

     Us women(most of the time) , we are jealous of each other, which leads us to  dislike each other, feign or even worse tear each other down. We all have experienced this one way or another, it can be with a family member, a friend or a colleague, it can even be someone that we just saw at a cafe. We just have that resentment towards each other. So, why is that? LACK OF SELF-LOVE!      I have talked about self love before, When someone have that rooted self-love inside of them no one they come across with will be a threat. Self-love is the key for a better world where women can be supportive and loving to one another.     How can you stop jealousy towards other women? Start by pointing out the things that makes you jealous of that particular person, it can literally be anything, then ask yourself why you are jealous, because 99.9% of the time it is your own insecurity, this is why practicing self love is important , embrace every ...

    Discipline the last and most important word I used while I was defining a confident woman. Discipline is setting a certain rule in your life in order for you to stay intact and in control. You see, us humans are animals(they say) but we all know we are not, why? because we think. That makes us different, but is only thinking enough, I mean if we can't think logically just having the ability to think is not enough. Humans even if we can think and we are not animals there is something in every single one of us that makes us think and act off the chain(we all have it, come on it's okay, there's no shame in admitting it) that is why we have laws! We need something to control that bit of craziness we have. When it comes to ourselves it is not really court law it is discipline it is like an extra tool for self-control.    Let's say you are a student or you work, you get up every morning to go to work or class because you have to, even if you are not motivat...

   Open-mindedness is simply opening the mind!(not literally of course,duh!) don't get stuck in your mind, in your own thoughts and whatever it is you have up there. It is a spectacular thing to listen to yourself and what your mind have to say and most times it is really helpful and guides your way but it doesn't necessarily mean you are always right. You might think you are but you might not be. Now, this is when being an open-minded person comes in handy, you get to listen to different voices that are not coming from your mind(not this time!). So the whole point of this is us people we see things from one point of view or two or three, but there will always be someone else who saw it from a totally different angle, that you didn't see. So, us being open minded about different things helps us to have different options and ideas. It can be in our personal life, our studies, it can even be in a big business agreements. Having to get that different idea won't be a bad t...