How to stay disciplined


    Discipline the last and most important word I used while I was defining a confident woman. Discipline is setting a certain rule in your life in order for you to stay intact and in control. You see, us humans are animals(they say) but we all know we are not, why? because we think. That makes us different, but is only thinking enough, I mean if we can't think logically just having the ability to think is not enough. Humans even if we can think and we are not animals there is something in every single one of us that makes us think and act off the chain(we all have it, come on it's okay, there's no shame in admitting it) that is why we have laws! We need something to control that bit of craziness we have. When it comes to ourselves it is not really court law it is discipline it is like an extra tool for self-control.


   Let's say you are a student or you work, you get up every morning to go to work or class because you have to, even if you are not motivated enough you will if you choose not to you will either get fired or fail your classes. It will make you lose something important in your life. Same for discipline, if you want to accomplish something in your life make it a habit, do it everyday, keep yourself disciplined!

   I once asked a friend of mine, how he keeps up with coming to the gym everyday to workout, I asked how he doesn't get tired of it and the response he gave me really moved me, he said "You know, I don't have a choice because I don't give myself one." Don't give yourself a choice, if you do, it is an open door for distractions, so don't! Practice it till your brain tells you, you didn't do something that you were suppose to, it might be studying, reading, working out, really anything that you want. Train your brain!! Keep yourself in that rule you set. Make it like  your work and classes, tell yourself if you miss it the outcome won't be good, that will help you to practice and stay disciplined.


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