Feminism and Confidence



  1. Feminism: the advocacy of women's rights on the basis of the equality of the sexes. I am quite certain many of you have heard this term before and I am not going to talk about that now. I believe that every female should be a feminist, I believe it must be  practiced as an ordinary thing. Feminism has a more deeper meaning than what I can write here. Feminism mostly talks about the GENDER EQUALITY when we never question how to treat each other as women. In this century women are more hostile to each other than men are to us. So, what is the purpose of saying we deserve better and talking about girl power when we don't even bother ourselves to build each other up or even worst tearing each other down. Jealousy, competition, insincerity the list goes on... I always have had a hard time understanding this, why are we mostly negative to one another and how unhealthy it is for the mind peace. I used to think that women maybe were created this way, but no! There can't be a conclusion made to say that women are like this from the beginning. We can be better to each other, how? Well first we need self love(back to it again)! We wouldn't have the urge to tear down someone if we have peace within ourselves. When looking at another woman we should be able to see ourselves in her instead of getting into unhealthy thoughts.  
  2. Women, we have a fire inside of us but how many of us really bother to look within and let that light out to shine, very few. You can't say you are a feminist, a supporter of women or even seek to be seen as one hell of a woman if you fail to alleviate one up. It all starts among ourselves! How can we expect to contend the outside when we are not a strong association on the inside. If you are able to build self love you will be able to develop self confidence in which you will have no difficulty with other women, you will only be in a competition to make yourself better instead of seeking for validation from others. Doing so will add up to your already built self confidence making you even a better human being. Keep practicing and making yourself better and building up your fellow women on the way.

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