Open mindedness

   Open-mindedness is simply opening the mind!(not literally of course,duh!) don't get stuck in your mind, in your own thoughts and whatever it is you have up there. It is a spectacular thing to listen to yourself and what your mind have to say and most times it is really helpful and guides your way but it doesn't necessarily mean you are always right. You might think you are but you might not be. Now, this is when being an open-minded person comes in handy, you get to listen to different voices that are not coming from your mind(not this time!). So the whole point of this is us people we see things from one point of view or two or three, but there will always be someone else who saw it from a totally different angle, that you didn't see. So, us being open minded about different things helps us to have different options and ideas. It can be in our personal life, our studies, it can even be in a big business agreements. Having to get that different idea won't be a bad thing. Now, of course not every time the person giving the advice is really the best, but will listening kill you? Listen, understand , go through every possible ideas you got, identify the pros and cons, write it down if you have to, then decide!


I know this is a cliche example that you might have seen a million times before but I can't seriously think of any other description for the topic I am talking about.

    Being open minded is also something that comes with practice, here we go again with the practice! Since every one of us come from different families, culture, environment and all, it might be difficult at first but once you open those ears and that mind the game changes. So, my fellow women, practice listening and open-mindedness.

Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

Is absolute confidence achievable?

Image
        Well, hmm let's see...there is no such thing as absolutely achievable when it comes human beings in general, there is no such thing as 100%, well, cause then we will be perfect. Which is impossible because we are not. But isn't that what makes us stronger every time. Here is the thing, just cause someone is confident that doesn't mean they don't have any doubt what so ever. I am here sharing my ideas and experiences with other women on how to be a confident woman, which I think I have achieved through practice, repetition and experiences. But am I always confident enough? Hell no! Don't i have doubts? Of course I do. Because we can't be 100% , we will never be. We will have second thoughts about our abilities even when  it is something we know we can do, there is always that little voice in the back of our mind telling us is it possible? should I go on with this?   what if this happens? what if i fail? or in my case  are you crazy?! W hic...
Read more

How to be an independent woman

Image
My next point is independence. How can a woman become independent? In order for someone to become independent you first need to understand and love yourself as I said in my previous post. Independence can be classified into three. Mental independence, financial independence  and emotional independence . Mental independence the other underrated thing and I don't hear people talking about it enough is mental independence. It is all about having your own independent thoughts, ideas, beliefs and whatever you call your own.  Mental independence can bring so much change in your life, it is a really beautiful thing to practice. And how can you practice it? Listening to what your thoughts have to say is the first thing, understand it then harness it, if you want to make yourself a better, let the mind grow.  Our brain is like our muscles, if you workout, your muscles become strong and look good. At the same time if you don't they become weak and not so good looking....
Read more

What is confidence?

Image
Confidence the feeling or belief that one can have faith in or rely on someone or something.(Oxford dictionary meaning) So now lets come to women in specific, what does it mean when we say a woman is confident? A confident woman is a woman who is confident(obviously), self-loving,  independent, open-minded and disciplined. Now, let me carefully explain the words I used to define a confident woman. Confident - is having faith in yourself, believing that you can be and do anything you set your mind to. Does not mean being an entitled person. Self-love - most people confuse self love with selfishness, while the two are completely different. Self-love is simply loving yourself. Does not mean loving ONLY yourself. Self-love is a very underrated word and is not practiced well enough. Self-love is looking out for yourself both physically and mentally. Physically can be exercising, eating healthy, taking care of your body, all those things us women do to keep ourselves lo...
Read more