How to overcome jealousy
Us women(most of the time) , we are jealous of each other, which leads us to dislike each other, feign or even worse tear each other down. We all have experienced this one way or another, it can be with a family member, a friend or a colleague, it can even be someone that we just saw at a cafe. We just have that resentment towards each other. So, why is that? LACK OF SELF-LOVE!
I have talked about self love before, When someone have that rooted self-love inside of them no one they come across with will be a threat. Self-love is the key for a better world where women can be supportive and loving to one another.
How can you stop jealousy towards other women? Start by pointing out the things that makes you jealous of that particular person, it can literally be anything, then ask yourself why you are jealous, because 99.9% of the time it is your own insecurity, this is why practicing self love is important , embrace every single thing that makes you you, and work on the things that needs change. I have practiced how not to be jealous since I was maybe 13, I don't know why but a voice inside of me told me that if I keep that little bit of ill feeling inside of me towards others it will keep growing and get worst. Everything starts within so, I started working on myself, studying hard, getting good grades, organizing events just anything that was productive. It was working, I still practice it, trying to make myself better every little step I take.It is definitely a slow process but it is worth everything. The battle is always you vs you but most of us don't know where the fight is, we end up fighting the wrong person at the wrong time. Remember a self-loving and a self-confident woman is never jealous of others be that woman!
And sometimes it is others that are jealous of us. So, as women what can we do? We should help the other person embrace who they are. Help them find themselves love and appreciate what they have. It might take long but we need to understand it is a long process. But, sometimes this won't work and ends up consuming our energy, so what do we do then? We STAY AWAY. Helping others is one thing but getting sucked into their drama is unnecessary and it actually even gives us a negative vibe. You can only help others if they are willing to be helped.
I have talked about self love before, When someone have that rooted self-love inside of them no one they come across with will be a threat. Self-love is the key for a better world where women can be supportive and loving to one another.
How can you stop jealousy towards other women? Start by pointing out the things that makes you jealous of that particular person, it can literally be anything, then ask yourself why you are jealous, because 99.9% of the time it is your own insecurity, this is why practicing self love is important , embrace every single thing that makes you you, and work on the things that needs change. I have practiced how not to be jealous since I was maybe 13, I don't know why but a voice inside of me told me that if I keep that little bit of ill feeling inside of me towards others it will keep growing and get worst. Everything starts within so, I started working on myself, studying hard, getting good grades, organizing events just anything that was productive. It was working, I still practice it, trying to make myself better every little step I take.It is definitely a slow process but it is worth everything. The battle is always you vs you but most of us don't know where the fight is, we end up fighting the wrong person at the wrong time. Remember a self-loving and a self-confident woman is never jealous of others be that woman!
And sometimes it is others that are jealous of us. So, as women what can we do? We should help the other person embrace who they are. Help them find themselves love and appreciate what they have. It might take long but we need to understand it is a long process. But, sometimes this won't work and ends up consuming our energy, so what do we do then? We STAY AWAY. Helping others is one thing but getting sucked into their drama is unnecessary and it actually even gives us a negative vibe. You can only help others if they are willing to be helped.
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