How to be a confident woman

    Discipline the last and most important word I used while I was defining a confident woman. Discipline is setting a certain rule in your life in order for you to stay intact and in control. You see, us humans are animals(they say) but we all know we are not, why? because we think. That makes us different, but is only thinking enough, I mean if we can't think logically just having the ability to think is not enough. Humans even if we can think and we are not animals there is something in every single one of us that makes us think and act off the chain(we all have it, come on it's okay, there's no shame in admitting it) that is why we have laws! We need something to control that bit of craziness we have. When it comes to ourselves it is not really court law it is discipline it is like an extra tool for self-control.    Let's say you are a student or you work, you get up every morning to go to work or class because you have to, even if you are not motivat...

   Open-mindedness is simply opening the mind!(not literally of course,duh!) don't get stuck in your mind, in your own thoughts and whatever it is you have up there. It is a spectacular thing to listen to yourself and what your mind have to say and most times it is really helpful and guides your way but it doesn't necessarily mean you are always right. You might think you are but you might not be. Now, this is when being an open-minded person comes in handy, you get to listen to different voices that are not coming from your mind(not this time!). So the whole point of this is us people we see things from one point of view or two or three, but there will always be someone else who saw it from a totally different angle, that you didn't see. So, us being open minded about different things helps us to have different options and ideas. It can be in our personal life, our studies, it can even be in a big business agreements. Having to get that different idea won't be a bad t...

My next point is independence. How can a woman become independent? In order for someone to become independent you first need to understand and love yourself as I said in my previous post. Independence can be classified into three. Mental independence, financial independence  and emotional independence . Mental independence the other underrated thing and I don't hear people talking about it enough is mental independence. It is all about having your own independent thoughts, ideas, beliefs and whatever you call your own.  Mental independence can bring so much change in your life, it is a really beautiful thing to practice. And how can you practice it? Listening to what your thoughts have to say is the first thing, understand it then harness it, if you want to make yourself a better, let the mind grow.  Our brain is like our muscles, if you workout, your muscles become strong and look good. At the same time if you don't they become weak and not so good looking....

Hi, on my last post I stopped my explanation on the word ''PRACTICE'''. So, what the hell does that mean?  Our brain is a very complex body part, which is wired to function in a way we set it to. So,  our day to day life is almost the same because there are a certain things that are repetitive, if you have school, classes are present in almost everyday, if you have work you have to go to the office or work from home the list goes on... So whenever we start the day our mind knows these things because it is used to it, it has practiced it through repetition.  Same goes for Self-love, independence, open-mindedness and discipline. I will explain all my points but on this post I will explain about how to practice self love. EVERYTHING STARTS IN OUR THOUGHTS! Life is not a competition you might look around and feel like everyone is doing better except you. You feel like you're behind, all those feelings you get. But what most people don't understand is th...

Confidence the feeling or belief that one can have faith in or rely on someone or something.(Oxford dictionary meaning) So now lets come to women in specific, what does it mean when we say a woman is confident? A confident woman is a woman who is confident(obviously), self-loving,  independent, open-minded and disciplined. Now, let me carefully explain the words I used to define a confident woman. Confident - is having faith in yourself, believing that you can be and do anything you set your mind to. Does not mean being an entitled person. Self-love - most people confuse self love with selfishness, while the two are completely different. Self-love is simply loving yourself. Does not mean loving ONLY yourself. Self-love is a very underrated word and is not practiced well enough. Self-love is looking out for yourself both physically and mentally. Physically can be exercising, eating healthy, taking care of your body, all those things us women do to keep ourselves lo...